A while back my brother in law Ryan sent me this link and I thought it was worth a share!!!
We can get so caught up on so many trivial things in life and easily lose our sense of humour. Im a big worrier and I drive my husband mad most of the time but Im lucky that he is easy going and so positive so he brings me back to earth and reminds me of whats important and whats not worth worrying about.
Having lost 3 very important people in our lives over the past 4 years, my family and I have learned a great life lesson..... Life is short. It is unpredictable. Its so special and worth all of your heart and soul so.... Focus on what is IMPORTANT and forget about the rest! Stop wasting time and start enjoying your life!!!
32 Things You Should Stop
1. Your ex. (Yes, really,
once more with feeling.) Your ex.
2. Whether someone thinks
that the literature, music, art, film, or any other kind of entertainment you
enjoy isn’t cool.
3. When someone looks at
the food you’re eating and comments on how it isn’t good for you. (THAT IS WHY
I ORDERED CHILI FRIES BITCH PASS ME THE RANCH DRESSING)
4. What the people you
don’t like post on their Facebook status (why are you even still friends with
5. Getting/maintaining a
6. Which celebrity’s
breasts are exposed this week.
7. Which celebrity is
cheating on which other celebrity.
8. The opinions of people
who a) will never like you and b) have absolutely no bearing on your life.
9. Whether or not you look
as good as some random, well-dressed stranger on the subway.
10. Who is making more
money than you, or how much exactly you think that they are making.
11. The fact that you are
perceived as not as sexually appealing as a picture of a celebrity or model
that has been put through so many rounds of makeup and Photoshop as to be
rendered little more than a cartoon.
12. Reality television
stars, how much sex they are having (and with whom), and whether or not they
decide to start a family.
13. Whether people you know
are getting married, having children, or making big life changes when it either
hasn’t happened to you yet or you don’t want it to happen at all.
14. The social lives of
people who don’t invite you out places.
15. What negative thing a
critic has to say about a film you really enjoyed.
16. The fact that friends
are going to make harmless decisions that we wouldn’t necessarily make for
ourselves. (They are there for your love and companionship, not to have another
17. What people are going
to think about the clothes that we really enjoy wearing.
18. What someone might be
saying behind your back (the answer is almost invariably that they aren’t even
thinking about you).
19. The path that everyone
else thinks that it would be “appropriate” or “practical” for you to take,
especially if that path doesn’t make you happy.
20. Whether or not your
hobbies, interests, or personality make you “masculine” or “feminine” enough.
21. How many followers you
have on Twitter.
22. Being the only one
without a significant other at a given event.
23. Having the same IKEA
furniture as all your other 20-something friends who have IKEA furniture. We’re
all in the IKEA furniture phase, okay? It doesn’t make us bad people.
24. Changing your
personality when you hang out with someone who you can feel doesn’t like you.
25. Eating salads on dates.
(Can I get this burger literally wrapped in bacon, please?)
26. Not being as well
dressed as all of the beautiful models that
people keep reblogging about on Tumblr.
27. Not being found
attractive by someone who is not even remotely worth your time.
28. Whether or not you cry
during movies that are somewhat embarrassing to cry during, such as The
Notebook. (Oh my god, but seriously, when they have to subdue her and Noah
is crying and, oh my god, the feelings.)
29. Watching your former
bullies become train wrecks via Facebook (though I will admit that that shit is
30. Hitting your life
milestones at the “right” moments.
31. Proving to people who
aren’t willing to listen that you are an okay person who is happy and whole.
32. Trying to convince your
friends/acquaintances to start watching Breaking Bad. If they’re not
going to do it, it’s their loss, dude.